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{{Quote|{{Bukhari|1|2|28}}|Narrated Ibn 'Abbas: The Prophet said: "I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful." It was asked, "Do they disbelieve in Allah?" (or are they ungrateful to Allah?) He replied, "They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, 'I have never received any good from you."}} | {{Quote|{{Bukhari|1|2|28}}|Narrated Ibn 'Abbas: The Prophet said: "I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful." It was asked, "Do they disbelieve in Allah?" (or are they ungrateful to Allah?) He replied, "They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, 'I have never received any good from you."}} | ||
====Women Are Wicked==== | |||
{{Quote|al-Ghazali, ''Ihy'a 'Uloum ed-Din'', Dar al-Kotob al-'Elmeyah, Beirut, Vol II, Kitab Adab al-Nikah, p. 51.|"If you relax the woman's bridle a tiny bit, she will take you and bolt wildly. And if you lower her cheek-piece a hand span, she will pull you an arm's length... Their deception is awesome and their wickedness is contagious; bad character and feeble mind are their predominant traits... Mohammad said: 'The likeness of a virtuous woman amongst women is like a red-beaked crow among a hundred crows."<ref>This is classified as a Sahih (authentic) narration and quoted by Imam Ahmad and al-Nasai.</ref>}} | |||
====Women are like Devils==== | ====Women are like Devils==== | ||
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{{Quote|{{Bukhari|4|52|111}}| Narrated Sahl bin Sad Saidi: "Allah's Apostle said "If there is any evil omen in anything, then it is in the woman, the horse and the house."}} | {{Quote|{{Bukhari|4|52|111}}| Narrated Sahl bin Sad Saidi: "Allah's Apostle said "If there is any evil omen in anything, then it is in the woman, the horse and the house."}} | ||
====Women who seek divorce are Hypocrites==== | |||
{{Quote|''Al-Tirmidhi No. 967'' (CD-ROM), Alim.org ([https://web.archive.org/web/20161223190006/http://www.alim.org/library/hadith/TIR/967 Archived]).<br>See also [https://sunnah.com/tirmidhi/13/13 Tirmidhi 13:13] and [https://sunnah.com/nasai/27/73 Nasai 27:73] |Narrated AbuHurayrah: The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "Women who withdraw themselves from their husbands and women who persuade their husbands to divorce them for a compensation are hypocrites."<br> | |||
Nasa'i transmitted it.}} | |||
====Most Women are Destined for Hell==== | ====Most Women are Destined for Hell==== | ||
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{{Quote|Ahmad Ibn Hanbal, 4:197,205|Imara Ibn Huzaima narrated: "While we were with `Amr Ibn al-`As on a pilgrimage or an `Umra, he said, "While we were with the Messenger of God in this mountain path, he said, 'Look! Do you see anything?' We answered, 'We see ravens; one is white-footed with red legs and peak.' The Messenger of God said, `No woman will enter paradise unless she is like this raven in comparison to the rest of the ravens.' "}} | {{Quote|Ahmad Ibn Hanbal, 4:197,205|Imara Ibn Huzaima narrated: "While we were with `Amr Ibn al-`As on a pilgrimage or an `Umra, he said, "While we were with the Messenger of God in this mountain path, he said, 'Look! Do you see anything?' We answered, 'We see ravens; one is white-footed with red legs and peak.' The Messenger of God said, `No woman will enter paradise unless she is like this raven in comparison to the rest of the ravens.' "}} | ||
{{Quote|Ishaq: | {{Quote|Ibn Ishaq. ''Sirat Rasul Allah''. [http://www.justislam.co.uk/images/Ibn%20Ishaq%20-%20Sirat%20Rasul%20Allah.pdf No. 270]. p.186.|"In hell I (Muhammad) saw women hanging by their breasts. They had fathered bastards."}} | ||
{{Quote|Kanz al-`ummal, 22:11|"[Muhammad said] A believing woman is the same among women as a white-footed raven among the ravens. Fire has been created for the senseless, and women are the most senseless of all."}} | {{Quote|Kanz al-`ummal, 22:11|"[Muhammad said] A believing woman is the same among women as a white-footed raven among the ravens. Fire has been created for the senseless, and women are the most senseless of all."}} | ||
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====Women are Detrimental to Men==== | ====Women are Detrimental to Men==== | ||
{{Quote|{{Bukhari|7|62|33}}|Narrated Usama bin Zaid: The Prophet said, "After me I have not left any affliction more harmful to men than women."}} | {{Quote|{{Bukhari|7|62|33}}|Narrated Usama bin Zaid: The Prophet said, "After me I have not left any fitnah (affliction/trial) more harmful/severe to men than women."}}{{Quote|{{Muslim|36|6603}}|Usama b. Zaid reported Allah's Messenger as saying: I have not left after me any (chance) of turmoil more injurious to men than the harm done to the men because of women.}}{{Quote|{{Muslim|36|6604}}|Usama b. Zaid b. Harith and Sa'id b. Zaid b. 'Amr b. Naufal both reported Allah's Messenger as saying: I have not left after me turmoil for the people but the harm done to men by women.}}<br /> | ||
====Women Betray their Husbands==== | ====Women Betray their Husbands==== | ||
{{ quote |{{Bukhari|4|55|547}} |Narrated Abu Huraira: | {{quote |{{Bukhari|4|55|547}} |Narrated Abu Huraira: | ||
The Prophet said, "But for the Israelis, meat would not decay and but for Eve, wives would never betray their husbands." }} | The Prophet said, "But for the Israelis, meat would not decay and but for Eve, wives would never betray their husbands." }} | ||
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{{Quote|{{Abu Dawud|11|2138}}|Narrated Mu'awiyah ibn Haydah: I said: Apostle of Allah, how should we approach our wives and how should we leave them? '''He replied: Approach your tilth when or how you will,''' give her (your wife) food when you take food, clothes when you clothe yourself, do not revile her face, and do not beat her.}} | {{Quote|{{Abu Dawud|11|2138}}|Narrated Mu'awiyah ibn Haydah: I said: Apostle of Allah, how should we approach our wives and how should we leave them? '''He replied: Approach your tilth when or how you will,''' give her (your wife) food when you take food, clothes when you clothe yourself, do not revile her face, and do not beat her.}} | ||
==== Women can be Mortgaged==== | ====Women can be Mortgaged==== | ||
{{quote|{{bukhari|5|59|369}}| | {{quote|{{bukhari|5|59|369}}| | ||
Narrated Jabir bin 'Abdullah:<BR> | Narrated Jabir bin 'Abdullah:<BR> | ||
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{{Quote|{{Bukhari|9|85|79}}|Narrated 'Aisha: I asked the Prophet, "O Allah's Apostle! Should the women be asked for their consent to their marriage?" He said, "Yes." I said, "A virgin, if asked, feels shy and keeps quiet." He said, '''"Her silence means her consent."'''}} | {{Quote|{{Bukhari|9|85|79}}|Narrated 'Aisha: I asked the Prophet, "O Allah's Apostle! Should the women be asked for their consent to their marriage?" He said, "Yes." I said, "A virgin, if asked, feels shy and keeps quiet." He said, '''"Her silence means her consent."'''}} | ||
===Men should avoid women not belonging to them completely=== | |||
{{Quote|Ascha, Ghassan. ''Du statut inférieur de la femme en Islam.'' p 491. Paris, 1989.| | |||
*Better for a man to be splashed by a pig than for him to brush against the elbow of a woman not permitted to him. | |||
*Better to bury an iron needle in the head of one of you than to touch a woman not permitted to him. | |||
*He who touches the palm of a woman not legally his will have red-hot embers put in the palm of his hand on Judgment Day. | |||
*Three things can interrupt prayers if they pass in front of someone praying: a black dog, a woman, and an ass. | |||
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==The Husband's Rights== | ==The Husband's Rights== | ||
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====Women Must be Obedient to their Husbands==== | ====Women Must be Obedient to their Husbands==== | ||
{{Quote|Ibn Majah | {{Quote|{{Ibn Majah|9|3|9|1854}}|It was narrated that from Musawir Al Himyari from his mother that: | ||
she heard Umm Salamah say: “I heard the Messenger of Allah say: ''''Any woman who dies when her husband is pleased with her, will enter Paradise'''.' ”(Hasan)}} | she heard Umm Salamah say: “I heard the Messenger of Allah say: ''''Any woman who dies when her husband is pleased with her, will enter Paradise'''.' ”(Hasan)}} | ||
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====The Husband's Desires Must be Immediately Met==== | ====The Husband's Desires Must be Immediately Met==== | ||
{{Quote|Ibn Majah | {{Quote|{{Ibn Majah|9|3|9|1853}}|Abdullah bin Abu Awfa said “...the messenger of Allah said: '... '''If [the husband] asks her (for intimacy) even if she is on her camel saddle, she should not refuse'''.'” (Hasan)}} | ||
{{Quote|Mishkat al-Masabih Book I, Section 'Duties of husband and wife', Hadith No. 61|The prophet of Allah said: When a man calls his wife to satisfy his desire, let her come to him though she is occupied at the oven.}} | {{Quote|Mishkat al-Masabih Book I, Section 'Duties of husband and wife', Hadith No. 61|The prophet of Allah said: When a man calls his wife to satisfy his desire, let her come to him though she is occupied at the oven.}} | ||
====Men have a Right to Rape their Female Slaves, even | ====Men have a Right to Rape their Female Slaves, even if they have Husbands==== | ||
{{Main|Qur'an, Hadith and Scholars:Rape}} | {{Main|Qur'an, Hadith and Scholars:Rape}} | ||
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{{Quote||This contract is primarily to own her and secondarily to enjoy her sexually.<ref>Abd ar-Rahman al-Gaziri, al-Fiqh 'ala al-Mazahib al-Arba'a, Dar al-Kutub al-'Elmeyah, 1990, vol. 4, p. 89</ref>}} | {{Quote||This contract is primarily to own her and secondarily to enjoy her sexually.<ref>Abd ar-Rahman al-Gaziri, al-Fiqh 'ala al-Mazahib al-Arba'a, Dar al-Kutub al-'Elmeyah, 1990, vol. 4, p. 89</ref>}} | ||
{{Quote|Abu Dawud | {{Quote|{{Abu Dawud||2155|darussalam}}|"Abu Sai’d al-Khudri said : The Apostle of Allah (may peace be upon him) sent a military expedition to Awtas on the occasion of the battle of Hunain. They met their enemy and fought with them. They defeated them and took them captives. Some of the Companions of the Apostle of Allah (may peace be upon him) were reluctant to have intercourse with the female captives because of their pagan husbands. So Allah, the Exalted, sent down the Qur’anic verse: (Sura 4:24) "And all married women (are forbidden) unto you save those (captives) whom your right hands possess." That is to say, they are lawful for them when they complete their waiting period.(1479)"}} | ||
{{Quote|Abu Dawud vol.2 no.2691|Salamah was given a captive girl and had not yet "untied her garment" Mohammed took the woman from Salamah and gave her to the Meccans to ransom Muslim prisoners.}} | {{Quote|Abu Dawud vol.2 no.2691|Salamah was given a captive girl and had not yet "untied her garment" Mohammed took the woman from Salamah and gave her to the Meccans to ransom Muslim prisoners.}} | ||
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{{Main|Qur'an, Hadith and Scholars:Mahr}} | {{Main|Qur'an, Hadith and Scholars:Mahr}} | ||
{{ quote | {{Abudawud|11|2126}} | Narrated Basrah: | {{quote | {{Abudawud|11|2126}} | Narrated Basrah: | ||
A man from the Ansar called Basrah said: I married a virgin woman in her veil. When I entered upon her, I found her pregnant. (I mentioned this to the Prophet). The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: ''''She will get the dower, for you made her vagina lawful for you.'''' The child will be your slave. When she has begotten (a child), flog her (according to the version of al-Hasan). The version of Ibn AbusSari has: You people, flog her, or said: inflict hard punishment on him.}} | A man from the Ansar called Basrah said: I married a virgin woman in her veil. When I entered upon her, I found her pregnant. (I mentioned this to the Prophet). The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: ''''She will get the dower, for you made her vagina lawful for you.'''' The child will be your slave. When she has begotten (a child), flog her (according to the version of al-Hasan). The version of Ibn AbusSari has: You people, flog her, or said: inflict hard punishment on him.}} | ||
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{{Quote||If a man has sex with a married woman, by mistake, thinking her to be his wife, he must give her a dowry equal to the dowry given to a woman of her social worth. This dowry becomes the property of the wife and not her husband.<ref>'Abd ar-Rahman al-Gaziri, al-Fiqh 'ala al-Mazahib al-Arba'a, Dar al-Kutub al- 'Elmeyah, 1990, vol. 4, p. 8. </ref>}} | {{Quote||If a man has sex with a married woman, by mistake, thinking her to be his wife, he must give her a dowry equal to the dowry given to a woman of her social worth. This dowry becomes the property of the wife and not her husband.<ref>'Abd ar-Rahman al-Gaziri, al-Fiqh 'ala al-Mazahib al-Arba'a, Dar al-Kutub al- 'Elmeyah, 1990, vol. 4, p. 8. </ref>}} | ||
====A Woman has the Right to go to Mosque==== | ====A Woman has the Right to go to Mosque, but she must take Permission from her Husband==== | ||
{{Quote|Bukhari, Nikah 116|"If the wife of any one of you ask permission to go to the mosque, he should not forbid her."}} | {{Quote|Bukhari, Nikah 116|"If the wife of any one of you ask permission to go to the mosque, he should not forbid her."}} | ||
===Restrictions Given to Women=== | ===Restrictions Given to Women=== | ||
====Muslim Women are Not Allowed to Marry Non-Muslim Men==== | |||
{{Quote|{{Quran|2|221}}|Wed not idolatresses till they believe; for lo! a believing bondwoman is better than an idolatress though she please you; '''and give not your daughters in marriage to idolaters till they believe''', for lo! a believing slave is better than an idolater though he please you. These invite unto the Fire, and Allah inviteth unto the Garden, and unto forgiveness by His grace, and expoundeth His revelations to mankind that haply they may reme}} | |||
====Women are Not Allowed to Choose a Man==== | ====Women are Not Allowed to Choose a Man==== | ||
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=====Women Must have Arranged Marriages by their Guardian===== | =====Women Must have Arranged Marriages by their Guardian===== | ||
{{Quote|{{Ibn Majah|3|9|1879}}|It was narrated from Aishah that : | {{Quote|{{Ibn Majah|9|3|9|1879}}|It was narrated from Aishah that : | ||
the Messenger of Allah said: “'''Any woman whose marriage is not arranged by her guardian, her marriage is invalid, her marriage is invalid, her marriage is invalid'''. If (the man) has had intercourse with her, then the Mahr belongs to her in return for his intimacy with her. And if there is any dispute then the ruler is the guardian of the one who does not have a guardian.” (Sahih)}} | the Messenger of Allah said: “'''Any woman whose marriage is not arranged by her guardian, her marriage is invalid, her marriage is invalid, her marriage is invalid'''. If (the man) has had intercourse with her, then the Mahr belongs to her in return for his intimacy with her. And if there is any dispute then the ruler is the guardian of the one who does not have a guardian.” (Sahih)}} | ||
{{Quote|{{Ibn Majah|3|9|1880}}|It was narrated that: | {{Quote|{{Ibn Majah|9|3|9|1880}}|It was narrated that: | ||
Aisha and Ibn Abbas said: “The Messenger of Allah said: ''''There is no marriage except with a guardian'''.' ”According to the Hadith of Aishah: “And the ruler is the guardian of the one who does not have a guardian. ” (Sahih)}} | Aisha and Ibn Abbas said: “The Messenger of Allah said: ''''There is no marriage except with a guardian'''.' ”According to the Hadith of Aishah: “And the ruler is the guardian of the one who does not have a guardian. ” (Sahih)}} | ||
{{Quote|{{Ibn Majah|3|9|1881}}|It was narrated from Abu Musa that: | {{Quote|{{Ibn Majah|9|3|9|1881}}|It was narrated from Abu Musa that: | ||
the Messenger of Allah said: “'''There is no marriage except with a guardian'''.” (Sahih)}} | the Messenger of Allah said: “'''There is no marriage except with a guardian'''.” (Sahih)}} | ||
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=====Women Married to Men of their own Choosing are Adulteresses===== | =====Women Married to Men of their own Choosing are Adulteresses===== | ||
{{Quote|{{Ibn Majah|3|9|1882}}|It was narrated from Abu Hurairah that: | {{Quote|{{Ibn Majah|9|3|9|1882}}|It was narrated from Abu Hurairah that: | ||
the Messenger of Allah said: “No woman should arrange the marriage of another woman, and no woman should arrange her own marriage. '''The adulteress is the one who arranges her own marriage'''.” (Sahih)}} | the Messenger of Allah said: “No woman should arrange the marriage of another woman, and no woman should arrange her own marriage. '''The adulteress is the one who arranges her own marriage'''.” (Sahih)}} | ||
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{{Quote|Al-Tirmidsi, Sawm 65|"Abu Huraira narrated that the Messenger of God said, 'No woman can fast a day of Ramadan, while her husband is there, without his prior permission.' "}} | {{Quote|Al-Tirmidsi, Sawm 65|"Abu Huraira narrated that the Messenger of God said, 'No woman can fast a day of Ramadan, while her husband is there, without his prior permission.' "}} | ||
====A woman cannot give away anything in her house without husband's permission==== | |||
{{Quote|''Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 609'', (CD-ROM), Alim.org. [https://sunnah.com/tirmidhi/7/54 Jami Al-Tirmidhi 7:54].|Narrated AbuUmamah: AbuUmamah heard Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) say in the course of his sermon in the year of the Farewell Pilgrimage, "A woman must not give anything away from her husband's house without her husband's permission." He was asked whether she might not even give away food and replied, "That is the most excellent property we possess."<br> | |||
Tirmidhi transmitted it.}} | |||
====A Menstruating Woman is Not Allowed to Stay in the Mosque==== | ====A Menstruating Woman is Not Allowed to Stay in the Mosque==== | ||
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====Women Must be Obedient to their Husbands to Enter Heaven==== | ====Women Must be Obedient to their Husbands to Enter Heaven==== | ||
{{Quote|{{Ibn Majah|3|9|1854}}|It was narrated that from Musawir Al Himyari from his mother that: | {{Quote|{{Ibn Majah|9|3|9|1854}}|It was narrated that from Musawir Al Himyari from his mother that: | ||
she heard Umm Salamah say: “I heard the Messenger of Allah say: ''''Any woman who dies when her husband is pleased with her, will enter Paradise'''.' ”(Hasan)}} | she heard Umm Salamah say: “I heard the Messenger of Allah say: ''''Any woman who dies when her husband is pleased with her, will enter Paradise'''.' ”(Hasan)}} | ||