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{{Quote|[https://web.archive.org/web/20211011105923/https://islamqa.info/en/answers/21592/ruling-on-asking-for-a-divorce-from-a-husband-who-has-some-medical-problems Fatwa Website Islam Question and Answer]|With regard to the man’s sterility, i.e., his inability to father children, this is not counted as a fault that would necessitate annulment of the marriage, according to the majority of scholars, apart from the view of al-Hasan al-Basri, and Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah}}
{{Quote|[https://web.archive.org/web/20211011105923/https://islamqa.info/en/answers/21592/ruling-on-asking-for-a-divorce-from-a-husband-who-has-some-medical-problems Fatwa Website Islam Question and Answer]|With regard to the man’s sterility, i.e., his inability to father children, this is not counted as a fault that would necessitate annulment of the marriage, according to the majority of scholars, apart from the view of al-Hasan al-Basri, and Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah}}


Actually, it was impossible to find out if a man was infertile in the previous centuries. Therefore, it was impossible to blame the man for infertility.  
On the other hand, if woman is infertile, then according to Islam, he could right away divorce her as Umar Ibn Khattab divorced his wife for this fault<ref>[https://web.archive.org/web/20211010131320/https://www.islamweb.org/en/fatwa/93808/the-status-of-the-barren-women-in-islam]</ref>


==Women who seek their freedom through Khul’ are hypocrites==
==Women who seek their freedom through Khul’ are hypocrites & will not  enter the paradise==
If a woman does not simply like her husband, and seeks to get her freedom by using the ransom money, then such a women was declared to be a hypocrite.
If a woman does not simply like her husband, and seeks to get her freedom by using the ransom money, then such a women was declared to be a hypocrite.
{{Quote|{{Al Tirmidhi||2|11|1186}}|عَنْ ثَوْبَانَ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ ‏"‏ الْمُخْتَلِعَاتُ هُنَّ الْمُنَافِقَاتُ ‏"‏
{{Quote|{{Al Tirmidhi||2|11|1186}}|عَنْ ثَوْبَانَ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ ‏"‏ الْمُخْتَلِعَاتُ هُنَّ الْمُنَافِقَاتُ ‏"‏


The Prophet said: "The women who seek a Khul are hypocrites."
The Prophet said: "The women who seek a Khul are hypocrites."
Grade: Sahih (Darussalam)}}{{Quote|{{Al Tirmidhi||2|11|1187}}|عَنْ ثَوْبَانَ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ ‏ "‏ أَيُّمَا امْرَأَةٍ سَأَلَتْ زَوْجَهَا طَلاَقًا مِنْ غَيْرِ بَأْسٍ فَحَرَامٌ عَلَيْهَا رَائِحَةُ الْجَنَّةِ
The Messenger of Allah said: "Whichever woman seeks a Khul from her husband without harm, then the scent of Paradise will be unlawful for her."
Grade: Sahih (Darussalam)}}
Grade: Sahih (Darussalam)}}
Islam critics point out that as compared to the woman, if a husband divorces his wife while he dislikes her or without any harm, then he will not become a hypocrite, and he will not get a problem in entering the paradise for this same action.


Sunnan Tirmidhi, Kitab-ul-Talaq:<blockquote>عَنْ ثَوْبَانَ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ ‏"‏ الْمُخْتَلِعَاتُ هُنَّ الْمُنَافِقَاتُ ‏"‏
The Prophet said: "The women who seek a Khul are '''hypocrites'''."
This tradition is “Sahih” (i.e. Authentic)</blockquote>Sunnan Tirmidhi, Kitab-ul-Talaq:<blockquote>عَنْ ثَوْبَانَ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ ‏ "‏ أَيُّمَا امْرَأَةٍ سَأَلَتْ زَوْجَهَا طَلاَقًا مِنْ غَيْرِ بَأْسٍ فَحَرَامٌ عَلَيْهَا رَائِحَةُ الْجَنَّةِ
The Messenger of Allah said: "Whichever woman seeks a Khul from her husband without harm (cause), then the scent of Paradise will be unlawful for her."
This tradition is also “Sahih”.</blockquote>
===Islam apologists: Woman is “emotional” and thus husband should decide for her if divorce is in her favour or not===
This is so wrong to only blame women for being emotional. Indeed, men could also be emotional and could make false decisions in anger.
But despite the extreme uncontrolled and extreme emotional nature of men in anger, still Islam made it so easy for man to say 3 times Talaq, and the divorce takes place.
===Islam Apologists: But Sunnah way of giving Talaq is 3 menstrual periods===
Sunnah or not, but Islamic Sharia indeed does allow men to divorce their wives in anger by saying 3 times Talaq.


Secondly, if the divorce process is 3 menstrual periods long, then not only husbands come out of their anger, but women will also come out of their anger or emotions. Thus, then Islam should also give this right to the women to give divorce after 3 months, while they are no more in state of emotions/anger.
Thirdly, if Islam does not give this right to women to decide for themselves even after 3 months (by blaming them of being emotional), then still Islam had to give this right to father or brother or son of the woman to decide on her behalf.
But when Islam says that if a woman wishes her freedom, then it is the Husband who should decide for the wife if divorce is in her favour or not, then this is not Wisdom, but plain Stupidity.
===Muslim women should ask these questions from themselves:===
===Muslim women should ask these questions from themselves:===
If you are a Muslim woman, then please ask this question from yourself:
If you are a Muslim woman, then please ask this question from yourself:
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(vii) That she, having been given in marriage by her father or other guardian before she attained the age of sixteen years, repudiated the marriage before attaining the age of eighteen years:</blockquote>All these conditions upon a woman was a great burden and injustice. That is why even Muslim countries were compelled to abandon this Islamic Ruling, and allow the woman to take Khul' immediately in the Courts without paying the ransom money.
(vii) That she, having been given in marriage by her father or other guardian before she attained the age of sixteen years, repudiated the marriage before attaining the age of eighteen years:</blockquote>All these conditions upon a woman was a great burden and injustice. That is why even Muslim countries were compelled to abandon this Islamic Ruling, and allow the woman to take Khul' immediately in the Courts without paying the ransom money.
==References==
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