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A divorce is only permissible twice: after that, the parties should either hold Together on equitable terms, or separate with kindness. It is not lawful for you, (Men), to take back any of your gifts (from your wives), except when both parties fear that they would be unable to keep the limits ordained by Allah. If ye (judges) do indeed fear that they would be unable to keep the limits ordained by Allah, there is no blame on either of them '''if she gives something for her freedom ( Arabic word:افْتَدَتْ which means Ransom money)'''.}} | A divorce is only permissible twice: after that, the parties should either hold Together on equitable terms, or separate with kindness. It is not lawful for you, (Men), to take back any of your gifts (from your wives), except when both parties fear that they would be unable to keep the limits ordained by Allah. If ye (judges) do indeed fear that they would be unable to keep the limits ordained by Allah, there is no blame on either of them '''if she gives something for her freedom ( Arabic word:افْتَدَتْ which means Ransom money)'''.}} | ||
== If the husband is abusive and beats her brutally (even with bruises), still she has no right to get her freedom == | ==If the husband is abusive and beats her brutally (even with bruises), still she has no right to get her freedom== | ||
Islam critics point out that following tradition, which shows that even brutal beating (even with bruises) is not enough that she could get her freedom through Khul' or through any Islamic court. | Islam critics point out that following tradition, which shows that even brutal beating (even with bruises) is not enough that she could get her freedom through Khul' or through any Islamic court. | ||
{{Quote|{{Bukhari||77|42|in-book}}|Rifa`a divorced his wife whereupon `AbdurRahman married her. `Aisha said that the lady (came), wearing a green veil, and complained to her (Aisha) of her husband '''and showed her a green spot on her skin caused by beating.''' It was the habit of ladies to support each other, so when Allah's Messenger came, `Aisha said, '''"I have not seen any woman suffering as much as the believing women. Look! Her skin is greener than her clothes!"''' | {{Quote|{{Bukhari||77|42|in-book}}|Rifa`a divorced his wife whereupon `AbdurRahman married her. `Aisha said that the lady (came), wearing a green veil, and complained to her (Aisha) of her husband '''and showed her a green spot on her skin caused by beating.''' It was the habit of ladies to support each other, so when Allah's Messenger came, `Aisha said, '''"I have not seen any woman suffering as much as the believing women. Look! Her skin is greener than her clothes!"''' | ||
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Critics of islam point out: | Critics of islam point out: | ||
*She could not get the right to have divorce automatically, even if he beats her so brutally that any part of her body breaks (like bones etc.), but she still has to pay the ransom money to get rid of such abusive husband. | *She could not get the right to have divorce automatically, even if he beats her so brutally that any part of her body breaks (like bones etc.), but she still has to pay the ransom money to get rid of such abusive husband. | ||
*As compared to Islam, in the Western world, she will not only get the right to have divorce automatically from such an abusive husband, '''but she will also get the compensation money from the husband for the injury'''. | *As compared to Islam, in the Western world, she will not only get the right to have divorce automatically from such an abusive husband, '''but she will also get the compensation money from the husband for the injury'''. | ||
==A woman could not get her freedom through Khul’ even if the man is infertile:== | ==A woman could not get her freedom through Khul’ even if the man is infertile:== | ||
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Actually, it was impossible to find out if a man was infertile in the previous centuries. Therefore, it was impossible to blame the man for infertility. | Actually, it was impossible to find out if a man was infertile in the previous centuries. Therefore, it was impossible to blame the man for infertility. | ||
== Women who seek their freedom through Khul’ are hypocrites == | ==Women who seek their freedom through Khul’ are hypocrites== | ||
If a woman does not simply like her husband, and seeks to get her freedom by using the ransom money, then such a women was declared to be a hypocrite. | If a woman does not simply like her husband, and seeks to get her freedom by using the ransom money, then such a women was declared to be a hypocrite. | ||
{{Quote|{{Al Tirmidhi||2| | {{Quote|{{Al Tirmidhi||2|13|13}}|عَنْ ثَوْبَانَ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ " الْمُخْتَلِعَاتُ هُنَّ الْمُنَافِقَاتُ " | ||
The Prophet said: "The women who seek a Khul are hypocrites." | The Prophet said: "The women who seek a Khul are hypocrites." | ||