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====Women are Detrimental to Men==== | ====Women are Detrimental to Men==== | ||
{{Quote|{{Bukhari|7|62|33}}|Narrated Usama bin Zaid: The Prophet said, "After me I have not left any affliction more harmful to men than women."}} | {{Quote|{{Bukhari|7|62|33}}|Narrated Usama bin Zaid: The Prophet said, "After me I have not left any fitnah (affliction/trial) more harmful/severe to men than women."}}{{Quote|{{Muslim|36|6603}}|Usama b. Zaid reported Allah's Messenger as saying: I have not left after me any (chance) of turmoil more injurious to men than the harm done to the men because of women.}}{{Quote|{{Muslim|36|6604}}|Usama b. Zaid b. Harith and Sa'id b. Zaid b. 'Amr b. Naufal both reported Allah's Messenger as saying: I have not left after me turmoil for the people but the harm done to men by women.}}<br /> | ||
====Women Betray their Husbands==== | ====Women Betray their Husbands==== | ||
{{ quote |{{Bukhari|4|55|547}} |Narrated Abu Huraira: | {{quote |{{Bukhari|4|55|547}} |Narrated Abu Huraira: | ||
The Prophet said, "But for the Israelis, meat would not decay and but for Eve, wives would never betray their husbands." }} | The Prophet said, "But for the Israelis, meat would not decay and but for Eve, wives would never betray their husbands." }} | ||
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{{Quote|{{Abu Dawud|11|2138}}|Narrated Mu'awiyah ibn Haydah: I said: Apostle of Allah, how should we approach our wives and how should we leave them? '''He replied: Approach your tilth when or how you will,''' give her (your wife) food when you take food, clothes when you clothe yourself, do not revile her face, and do not beat her.}} | {{Quote|{{Abu Dawud|11|2138}}|Narrated Mu'awiyah ibn Haydah: I said: Apostle of Allah, how should we approach our wives and how should we leave them? '''He replied: Approach your tilth when or how you will,''' give her (your wife) food when you take food, clothes when you clothe yourself, do not revile her face, and do not beat her.}} | ||
==== Women can be Mortgaged==== | ====Women can be Mortgaged==== | ||
{{quote|{{bukhari|5|59|369}}| | {{quote|{{bukhari|5|59|369}}| | ||
Narrated Jabir bin 'Abdullah:<BR> | Narrated Jabir bin 'Abdullah:<BR> | ||
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{{Quote|{{Bukhari|9|85|79}}|Narrated 'Aisha: I asked the Prophet, "O Allah's Apostle! Should the women be asked for their consent to their marriage?" He said, "Yes." I said, "A virgin, if asked, feels shy and keeps quiet." He said, '''"Her silence means her consent."'''}} | {{Quote|{{Bukhari|9|85|79}}|Narrated 'Aisha: I asked the Prophet, "O Allah's Apostle! Should the women be asked for their consent to their marriage?" He said, "Yes." I said, "A virgin, if asked, feels shy and keeps quiet." He said, '''"Her silence means her consent."'''}} | ||
===Men should avoid women not belonging to them completely=== | |||
{{Quote|Ascha, Ghassan. ''Du statut inférieur de la femme en Islam.'' p 491. Paris, 1989.| | |||
*Better for a man to be splashed by a pig than for him to brush against the elbow of a woman not permitted to him. | |||
*Better to bury an iron needle in the head of one of you than to touch a woman not permitted to him. | |||
*He who touches the palm of a woman not legally his will have red-hot embers put in the palm of his hand on Judgment Day. | |||
*Three things can interrupt prayers if they pass in front of someone praying: a black dog, a woman, and an ass. | |||
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==The Husband's Rights== | ==The Husband's Rights== | ||
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{{Quote||This contract is primarily to own her and secondarily to enjoy her sexually.<ref>Abd ar-Rahman al-Gaziri, al-Fiqh 'ala al-Mazahib al-Arba'a, Dar al-Kutub al-'Elmeyah, 1990, vol. 4, p. 89</ref>}} | {{Quote||This contract is primarily to own her and secondarily to enjoy her sexually.<ref>Abd ar-Rahman al-Gaziri, al-Fiqh 'ala al-Mazahib al-Arba'a, Dar al-Kutub al-'Elmeyah, 1990, vol. 4, p. 89</ref>}} | ||
{{Quote|Abu Dawud | {{Quote|{{Abu Dawud||2155|darussalam}}|"Abu Sai’d al-Khudri said : The Apostle of Allah (may peace be upon him) sent a military expedition to Awtas on the occasion of the battle of Hunain. They met their enemy and fought with them. They defeated them and took them captives. Some of the Companions of the Apostle of Allah (may peace be upon him) were reluctant to have intercourse with the female captives because of their pagan husbands. So Allah, the Exalted, sent down the Qur’anic verse: (Sura 4:24) "And all married women (are forbidden) unto you save those (captives) whom your right hands possess." That is to say, they are lawful for them when they complete their waiting period.(1479)"}} | ||
{{Quote|Abu Dawud vol.2 no.2691|Salamah was given a captive girl and had not yet "untied her garment" Mohammed took the woman from Salamah and gave her to the Meccans to ransom Muslim prisoners.}} | {{Quote|Abu Dawud vol.2 no.2691|Salamah was given a captive girl and had not yet "untied her garment" Mohammed took the woman from Salamah and gave her to the Meccans to ransom Muslim prisoners.}} | ||
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{{Main|Qur'an, Hadith and Scholars:Mahr}} | {{Main|Qur'an, Hadith and Scholars:Mahr}} | ||
{{ quote | {{Abudawud|11|2126}} | Narrated Basrah: | {{quote | {{Abudawud|11|2126}} | Narrated Basrah: | ||
A man from the Ansar called Basrah said: I married a virgin woman in her veil. When I entered upon her, I found her pregnant. (I mentioned this to the Prophet). The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: ''''She will get the dower, for you made her vagina lawful for you.'''' The child will be your slave. When she has begotten (a child), flog her (according to the version of al-Hasan). The version of Ibn AbusSari has: You people, flog her, or said: inflict hard punishment on him.}} | A man from the Ansar called Basrah said: I married a virgin woman in her veil. When I entered upon her, I found her pregnant. (I mentioned this to the Prophet). The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: ''''She will get the dower, for you made her vagina lawful for you.'''' The child will be your slave. When she has begotten (a child), flog her (according to the version of al-Hasan). The version of Ibn AbusSari has: You people, flog her, or said: inflict hard punishment on him.}} | ||
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===Restrictions Given to Women=== | ===Restrictions Given to Women=== | ||
====Muslim Women are Not Allowed to Marry Non-Muslim Men==== | |||
{{Quote|{{Quran|2|221}}|Wed not idolatresses till they believe; for lo! a believing bondwoman is better than an idolatress though she please you; '''and give not your daughters in marriage to idolaters till they believe''', for lo! a believing slave is better than an idolater though he please you. These invite unto the Fire, and Allah inviteth unto the Garden, and unto forgiveness by His grace, and expoundeth His revelations to mankind that haply they may reme}} | |||
====Women are Not Allowed to Choose a Man==== | ====Women are Not Allowed to Choose a Man==== | ||
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{{Quote|Al-Tirmidsi, Sawm 65|"Abu Huraira narrated that the Messenger of God said, 'No woman can fast a day of Ramadan, while her husband is there, without his prior permission.' "}} | {{Quote|Al-Tirmidsi, Sawm 65|"Abu Huraira narrated that the Messenger of God said, 'No woman can fast a day of Ramadan, while her husband is there, without his prior permission.' "}} | ||
====A woman cannot give away anything in her house without husband's permission==== | |||
{{Quote|''Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 609'', (CD-ROM), Alim.org. [https://sunnah.com/tirmidhi/7/54 Jami Al-Tirmidhi 7:54].|Narrated AbuUmamah: AbuUmamah heard Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) say in the course of his sermon in the year of the Farewell Pilgrimage, "A woman must not give anything away from her husband's house without her husband's permission." He was asked whether she might not even give away food and replied, "That is the most excellent property we possess."<br> | |||
Tirmidhi transmitted it.}} | |||
====A Menstruating Woman is Not Allowed to Stay in the Mosque==== | ====A Menstruating Woman is Not Allowed to Stay in the Mosque==== | ||