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==Women's Rights== | ==Women's Rights== | ||
===What are women allowed=== | |||
====Woman has right to get food and clothes==== | |||
{{Quote|Sunan Ibn Magah, Kitab al-Nikah, Hadith No. 1850.|O Messenger of Allah ! What right has the wife of one among us got over him?' He said: 'It is that you shall give her food when you have taken your food, that you shall clothe her when you have clothed yourself, that you shall not slap her on the face, nor revile her, nor desert her except within the house.}} | |||
====A Women has right Not be Hit on the Face==== | |||
{{Quote|Mishkat Al-Masabih: Volume 2, page 691|Hakim b. Mu`awiya al-Qushairi quoted his father as telling that he asked, "Messenger of God, what right can any wife demand of her husband?" He replied, "That you should give her food to eat, clothe her when you clothe yourself, not strike her on the face, and do not revile her or seperate from her except in the house." Ahmad, Abu Dawud and Ibn Majah transmitted it.}} | |||
{{Quote|{{Abu Dawud|11|2137}}|Narrated Mu'awiyah al-Qushayri: Mu'awiyah asked: Apostle of Allah, what is the right of the wife of one of us over him? He replied: That you should give her food when you eat, clothe her when you clothe yourself, do not strike her '''on the face''', do not revile her or separate yourself from her except in the house.}} | |||
{{Quote|{{Abu Dawud|11|2138}}|Narrated Mu'awiyah ibn Haydah: I said: Apostle of Allah, how should we approach our wives and how should we leave them? He replied: Approach your tilth when or how you will, give her (your wife) food when you take food, clothe when you clothe yourself, do not revile her face, and do not beat her.}} | |||
{{Quote|{{Abu Dawud|11|2139}}|Narrated Mu'awiyah al-Qushayri: I went to the Apostle of Allah (peace be upon him) and asked him: What do you say (command) about our wives? He replied: Give them food what you have for yourself, and clothe them by which you clothe yourself, and do not beat them, and do not revile them.}} | |||
===What are women not allowed=== | |||
====Woman cannot artificially lengthen their hair or get a tattoo==== | |||
{{Quote|{{Bukhari|7|72|818}}| | |||
Narrated Asma: (the daughter of Abu' Bakr) A woman came to Allah's Apostle and said, "I married my daughter to someone, but she became sick and all her hair fell out, and (because of that) her husband does not like her. May I let her use false hair?" On that the Prophet cursed such a lady as artificially lengthening (her or someone else's) hair or got her hair lengthened artificially.}} | |||
{{Quote|{{Bukhari|7|72|819}}|Narrated Asma: (the daughter of Abu Bakr) Allah's Apostle has cursed such a lady as artificially lengthening (her or someone else's) hair or gets her hair lengthened.}} | |||
{{Quote|{{Bukhari|7|72|820}}|Narrated Ibn Umar: Allah's Apostle said, "Allah has cursed such a lady as lengthens (her or someone else's) hair artificially or gets it lengthened, and also a lady who tattoos (herself or someone else) or gets herself tattooed.}} | |||
{{Quote|{{Bukhari|7|72|823}}|Narrated Ibn 'Umar : The Prophet has cursed the lady who lengthens her hair artificially and the one who gets her hair lengthened, and also the lady who tattoos (herself or others) and the one who gets herself tattooed.}} | |||
{{Quote|{{Bukhari|7|72|824}}|Narrated Asma': A woman asked the Prophet saying, "0 Allah's Apostle! My daughter got measles and her hair fell out. Now that I got her married, may I let her use false hair?" He said (to her), "Allah has cursed the lady who lengthens hair artificially and the one who gets her hair lengthened artificially."}} | |||
{{Quote|{{Bukhari|7|72|825}}|Narrated Ibn 'Umar : I heard the Prophet saying, (or the Prophet said), "Allah has cursed the lady who practices tattooing and that who gets it done for herself, and also the lady who lengthens hair artificially and that who gets her hair lengthened artificially." The Prophet has cursed such ladies.}} | |||
{{Quote|{{Bukhari|7|72|826}}|Narrated Ibn Mas'ud: Allah has cursed those women who practise tattooing or get it done for themselves, and those who remove hair from their faces, and those who create spaces between their teeth artificially to look beautiful, such ladies as change the features created by Allah. Why then shall I not curse those whom Allah's Apostle has cursed and who are cursed in Allah's Book too?}} | |||
{{Quote|{{Bukhari|7|72|827}}|Narrated Abu Huraira : Allah's Apostle said, "The evil eye is a fact," and he forbade tattooing.}} | |||
{{Quote|{{Bukhari|7|72|829}}|Narrated Abu Juhaifa: The Prophet forbade the use of the price of blood and the price of a dog, the one who takes (eats) usury the one who gives usury, the woman who practises tattooing and the woman who gets herself tattooed.}} | |||
{{Quote|{{Bukhari|7|72|830}}|Narrated Abu Huraira : A woman who used to practise tattooing was brought to 'Umar. 'Umar got up and said, "I beseech you by Allah, which of you heard the Prophet saying something about tattooing?" l got up and said, "0 chief of the Believers! l heard something." He said, "What did you hear?" I said, "I heard the Prophet (addressing the ladies), saying, 'Do not practise tattooing and do not get yourselves tattooed.'"}} | |||
{{Quote|{{Bukhari|7|72|831}}|Narrated Ibn 'Umar : The Prophet has cursed the lady who lengthens hair artificially and that who gets her hair lengthened in such away, and the lady who practises tattooing and that who gets it done for herself.}} | |||
{{Quote|{{Bukhari|7|72|832}}|Narrated 'Abdullah : Allah has cursed those women who practise tattooing and those who get it done for themselves, and those who remove hair from their faces, and those who artificially create spaces between their teeth to look beautiful, such women as alter the features created by Allah. Why should I not then curse those whom Allah's Apostle has cursed and that is in Allah's Book?}} | |||
===Women are not allowed to choose a man by their own=== | |||
====Women Must have Arranged Marriages by their guardian==== | |||
{{Quote|{{Ibn Majah|3|9|1879}}|It was narrated from Aishah that : | |||
the Messenger of Allah said: “'''Any woman whose marriage is not arranged by her guardian, her marriage is invalid, her marriage is invalid, her marriage is invalid'''. If (the man) has had intercourse with her, then the Mahr belongs to her in return for his intimacy with her. And if there is any dispute then the ruler is the guardian of the one who does not have a guardian.” (Sahih)}} | |||
{{Quote|{{Ibn Majah|3|9|1880}}|It was narrated that: | |||
Aisha and Ibn Abbas said: “The Messenger of Allah said: ''''There is no marriage except with a guardian'''.' ”According to the Hadith of Aishah: “And the ruler is the guardian of the one who does not have a guardian. ” (Sahih)}} | |||
{{Quote|{{Ibn Majah|3|9|1881}}|It was narrated from Abu Musa that: | |||
the Messenger of Allah said: “'''There is no marriage except with a guardian'''.” (Sahih)}} | |||
====Woman married to a man choosed by herself is adulteress==== | |||
{{Quote|{{Ibn Majah|3|9|1882}}|It was narrated from Abu Hurairah that: | |||
the Messenger of Allah said: “No woman should arrange the marriage of another woman, and no woman should arrange her own marriage. '''The adulteress is the one who arranges her own marriage'''.” (Sahih)}} | |||
====A Woman has the Right to go to Mosque==== | |||
{{Quote|Bukhari, Nikah 116|"If the wife of any one of you ask permission to go to the mosque, he should not forbid her."}} | |||
===What are women obliged to=== | |||
====Women are a Tilth for Men to Cultivate==== | |||
{{Quote|{{Quran|2|223}}|'''Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will;''' but do some good act for your souls beforehand; and fear Allah. And know that ye are to meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give (these) good tidings to those who believe.}} | |||
{{Quote|{{Abu Dawud|11|2138}}|Narrated Mu'awiyah ibn Haydah: I said: Apostle of Allah, how should we approach our wives and how should we leave them? '''He replied: Approach your tilth when or how you will,''' give her (your wife) food when you take food, clothes when you clothe yourself, do not revile her face, and do not beat her.}} | |||
====Marrying a non Muslim Woman==== | ====Marrying a non Muslim Woman==== | ||
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'''Shakir:''' And do not marry the idolatresses until they believe, and certainly a believing maid is better than an idolatress woman, even though she should please you; and do not give (believing women) in marriage to idolaters until they believe, and certainly a believing servant is better than an idolater, even though he should please you; these invite to the fire, and Allah invites to the garden and to forgiveness by His will, and makes clear His communications to men, that they may be mindful. }} | '''Shakir:''' And do not marry the idolatresses until they believe, and certainly a believing maid is better than an idolatress woman, even though she should please you; and do not give (believing women) in marriage to idolaters until they believe, and certainly a believing servant is better than an idolater, even though he should please you; these invite to the fire, and Allah invites to the garden and to forgiveness by His will, and makes clear His communications to men, that they may be mindful. }} | ||
====A Women Should Not be Hit on the Face==== | ====A Women Should Not be Hit on the Face==== | ||
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{{Quote|{{Bukhari|2|20|194}}|Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet (p.b.u.h) said, "It is not permissible for a woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day to travel for one day and night except with a Mahram."}} | {{Quote|{{Bukhari|2|20|194}}|Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet (p.b.u.h) said, "It is not permissible for a woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day to travel for one day and night except with a Mahram."}} | ||
====Women Must have Arranged Marriages or It's Classed as Adultery==== | ====Women Must have Arranged Marriages or It's Classed as Adultery==== | ||