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If Khadijah was 28 at that time, she was born in the year between March 568 and March 569, some dozen years later than Hakim ibn Hizam claimed. Her age in solar years could have been anywhere between 26 years 4 months and 27 years 4 months. All we can do is take the median and accept it as an approximation.
If Khadijah was 28 at that time, she was born in the year between March 568 and March 569, some dozen years later than Hakim ibn Hizam claimed. Her age in solar years could have been anywhere between 26 years 4 months and 27 years 4 months. All we can do is take the median and accept it as an approximation.


*''Khadijah’s Median Age = 26 years and 10 months.''
*Khadijah’s Median Age = 26 years and 10 months.
*''Muhammad’s Age = 24 years and 3 months.''
*Muhammad’s Age = 24 years and 3 months.
*''Age Difference = (minus) 2 years and 7 months.''
*Age Difference = (minus) 2 years and 7 months.


Far from being a “much older” woman, it appears that Khadijah was the only one of Muhammad’s wives who might fairly be deemed the same age as himself.
Far from being a “much older” woman, it appears that Khadijah was the only one of Muhammad’s wives who might fairly be deemed the same age as himself.
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When Muhammad married Sawdah in May 620, he was 49. It is possible that Sawdah was also about that age<ref>[http://www.themodernreligion.com/prophet/prophet_aisha.htm/ Ahmed, S. “Prophet Muhammad and Aisha Siddiqa.”]</ref> and that she lived to be over 100. But it is unlikely. Allowing that she was not yet menopausal and that she had a father living, she was probably closer to 40.
When Muhammad married Sawdah in May 620, he was 49. It is possible that Sawdah was also about that age<ref>[http://www.themodernreligion.com/prophet/prophet_aisha.htm/ Ahmed, S. “Prophet Muhammad and Aisha Siddiqa.”]</ref> and that she lived to be over 100. But it is unlikely. Allowing that she was not yet menopausal and that she had a father living, she was probably closer to 40.


*''Sawdah’s Probable Age = about 40 years.''
*Sawdah’s Probable Age = about 40 years.
*''Muhammad’s Age = 49 years and 1 month.''
*Muhammad’s Age = 49 years and 1 month.
*''Age Difference = 9 years, plus or minus a few.''
*Age Difference = 9 years, plus or minus a few.


The age difference between Muhammad and Sawdah was not inappropriate for a middle-aged couple; but she was almost certainly the younger spouse. And we will state here that Sawdah was the oldest bride whom Muhammad ever married.
The age difference between Muhammad and Sawdah was not inappropriate for a middle-aged couple; but she was almost certainly the younger spouse. And we will state here that Sawdah was the oldest bride whom Muhammad ever married.
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Her marriage was consummated in the tenth month of the first year AH. This fell between 11 April and 9 May (median = 25 April 623). We can now take an informed estimate of her age at consummation.
Her marriage was consummated in the tenth month of the first year AH. This fell between 11 April and 9 May (median = 25 April 623). We can now take an informed estimate of her age at consummation.


*''Aisha’s Median Age at Consummation = 9 years and 3 months.''
*Aisha’s Median Age at Consummation = 9 years and 3 months.
*''Muhammad’s Age = 52 years and 0 months.''
*Muhammad’s Age = 52 years and 0 months.
*''Age Difference = 42 years and 9 months.''
*Age Difference = 42 years and 9 months.


The exact age or age difference down to the day or even to the year do not matter. The real points are that (1) Aisha was a prepubescent child, and (2) Muhammad was old enough to be her grandfather.
The exact age or age difference down to the day or even to the year do not matter. The real points are that (1) Aisha was a prepubescent child, and (2) Muhammad was old enough to be her grandfather.
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Shabaan 3 AH fell between 20 January and 17 February 625 (median = 3 February).
Shabaan 3 AH fell between 20 January and 17 February 625 (median = 3 February).


*''Hafsah’s Median Age = 19 years and 7 months.''
*Hafsah’s Median Age = 19 years and 7 months.
*''Muhammad’s Age = 53 years and 9 months.''
*Muhammad’s Age = 53 years and 9 months.
*''Age Difference = 34 years and 2 months.''
*Age Difference = 34 years and 2 months.


It does not really matter whether Hafsah was 19 or 17. The important points are that (1) she was biologically a woman and not a child, but (2) she was a ''young'' woman, while Muhammad was biologically old enough to be her grandfather.
It does not really matter whether Hafsah was 19 or 17. The important points are that (1) she was biologically a woman and not a child, but (2) she was a ''young'' woman, while Muhammad was biologically old enough to be her grandfather.
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Zaynab was therefore married on or soon after 18 February 625. She died on or just before 11 October 625. If she was “about 30” in 4 AH, she was born in October 596, plus or minus a few years.
Zaynab was therefore married on or soon after 18 February 625. She died on or just before 11 October 625. If she was “about 30” in 4 AH, she was born in October 596, plus or minus a few years.


*''Zaynab’s Median Age = 28 years and 4 months.''
*Zaynab’s Median Age = 28 years and 4 months.
*''Muhammad’s Age = 53 years and 10 months.''
*Muhammad’s Age = 53 years and 10 months.
*''Age Difference = 25 years and 6 months.''
*Age Difference = 25 years and 6 months.


Zaynab married five times.<ref>Ibn Hisham note 918; Bewley/Saad 8:82; {{Tabari|9|p. 138}}; {{Tabari|39|pp. 163-614}}.</ref> Her fifth choice, it seems, fell on a high-status and already-married man old enough to be her father.
Zaynab married five times.<ref>Ibn Hisham note 918; Bewley/Saad 8:82; {{Tabari|9|p. 138}}; {{Tabari|39|pp. 163-614}}.</ref> Her fifth choice, it seems, fell on a high-status and already-married man old enough to be her father.
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{{Quote|Bewley/Saad 8:61.|The Messenger of Allah married her at the end of the month of Shawwal 4 AH [on or before 6 April 626].}}
{{Quote|Bewley/Saad 8:61.|The Messenger of Allah married her at the end of the month of Shawwal 4 AH [on or before 6 April 626].}}


*''Hind’s Median Age = 28 years and 6 months.''
*Hind’s Median Age = 28 years and 6 months.
*''Muhammad’s Age = 55 years and 0 months.''
*Muhammad’s Age = 55 years and 0 months.
*''Age Difference = 26 years and 5 months.''
*Age Difference = 26 years and 5 months.


It is very plausible that Hind was 28 when she married Muhammad, for her fourth child was then a newborn<ref>Bewley/Saad 8:63-66.</ref> while her eldest daughter was about ten years of age.<ref>Guillaume/Ishaq 147.</ref>
It is very plausible that Hind was 28 when she married Muhammad, for her fourth child was then a newborn<ref>Bewley/Saad 8:63-66.</ref> while her eldest daughter was about ten years of age.<ref>Guillaume/Ishaq 147.</ref>
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Thirty-five years before 5 AH brings us to a birth-year of 31 BH (20 June 592 - 8 June 593), a discrepancy of three years. Probably Umar ibn Uthman was giving a round number when he said she was married at 35; to be conservative, we will assume the earlier birthdate. However, we must bear in mind that Zaynab might have been some three years younger than this.
Thirty-five years before 5 AH brings us to a birth-year of 31 BH (20 June 592 - 8 June 593), a discrepancy of three years. Probably Umar ibn Uthman was giving a round number when he said she was married at 35; to be conservative, we will assume the earlier birthdate. However, we must bear in mind that Zaynab might have been some three years younger than this.


*''Zaynab’s Median Age = 37 years and 2 months.''
*Zaynab’s Median Age = 37 years and 2 months.
*''Muhammad’s Age = 55 years and 11 months.''
*Muhammad’s Age = 55 years and 11 months.
*''Age Difference = 18 years and 9 months.''
*Age Difference = 18 years and 9 months.


Therefore we have to discard modern commentaries claiming that Zaynab was “in late middle age.”<ref>[http://www.ispi-usa.org/muhammad/appendix2.html/ Akhter, J. (2001). “The Prophet's Marriages and Wives”] in ''The Seven Phases of Prophet Muhammad's Life''. Chicago: ISPI.</ref> While her contemporary community might not have considered her “a young woman,” this is relative. She was still young enough to have been Muhammad’s daughter.
Therefore we have to discard modern commentaries claiming that Zaynab was “in late middle age.”<ref>[http://www.ispi-usa.org/muhammad/appendix2.html/ Akhter, J. (2001). “The Prophet's Marriages and Wives”] in ''The Seven Phases of Prophet Muhammad's Life''. Chicago: ISPI.</ref> While her contemporary community might not have considered her “a young woman,” this is relative. She was still young enough to have been Muhammad’s daughter.
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Nevertheless, to be on the safe side, we shall take a two-year range for Juwayriyah’s birthdate, between 9 January 607 and 17 December 608. The median is 28 December 607. She was married in Shabaan 6 AH, a median date of 2 January 628.
Nevertheless, to be on the safe side, we shall take a two-year range for Juwayriyah’s birthdate, between 9 January 607 and 17 December 608. The median is 28 December 607. She was married in Shabaan 6 AH, a median date of 2 January 628.


*''Juwayriyah’s Median Age = 20 years and 0 months.''
*Juwayriyah’s Median Age = 20 years and 0 months.
*''Muhammad’s Age = 56 years and 9 months.''
*Muhammad’s Age = 56 years and 9 months.
*''Age Difference = 36 years and 9 months.''
*Age Difference = 36 years and 9 months.


So another one of Muhammad's wives, Juwayriyah, was young enough to be his granddaughter.
So another one of Muhammad's wives, Juwayriyah, was young enough to be his granddaughter.
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The Muslims therefore began the march to Khaybar in late May or early June 628 and were back in Medina before the end of July. So Muhammad married Safiyah early in Rabi-Awwal 7 AH (mid-July 628). Safiyah apparently knew that she had been born in Rabi-Awwal 17 years earlier, though she did not know whether it had been late or early in the month and therefore did not know whether she had reached 17 full years on the particular night when she married Muhammad. The Rabi-Awwal of 17 years earlier fell between 14 January and 12 February 612, giving Safiyah a birthdate of 28 January 612, plus or minus a fortnight.
The Muslims therefore began the march to Khaybar in late May or early June 628 and were back in Medina before the end of July. So Muhammad married Safiyah early in Rabi-Awwal 7 AH (mid-July 628). Safiyah apparently knew that she had been born in Rabi-Awwal 17 years earlier, though she did not know whether it had been late or early in the month and therefore did not know whether she had reached 17 full years on the particular night when she married Muhammad. The Rabi-Awwal of 17 years earlier fell between 14 January and 12 February 612, giving Safiyah a birthdate of 28 January 612, plus or minus a fortnight.


*''Safiyah’s Age = 16 years and 6 months.''
*Safiyah’s Age = 16 years and 6 months.
*''Muhammad’s Age = 57 years and 3 months.''
*Muhammad’s Age = 57 years and 3 months.
*''Age Difference = 40 years and 9 months.''
*Age Difference = 40 years and 9 months.


Safiyah was yet another bride who was young enough to be Muhammad’s granddaughter.
Safiyah was yet another bride who was young enough to be Muhammad’s granddaughter.
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30 BH fell between 9 June 593 and 28 May 594, giving Ramlah a median birthdate of 2 December 593. Her marriage to Muhammad was consummated upon his return from Khaybar in July 628.<ref>Guillaume/Ishaq 526, 529-530.</ref>
30 BH fell between 9 June 593 and 28 May 594, giving Ramlah a median birthdate of 2 December 593. Her marriage to Muhammad was consummated upon his return from Khaybar in July 628.<ref>Guillaume/Ishaq 526, 529-530.</ref>


*''Ramlah’s Median Age at Consummation = 34 years and 7 months.''
*Ramlah’s Median Age at Consummation = 34 years and 7 months.
*''Muhammad’s Age = 57 years and 3 months.''
*Muhammad’s Age = 57 years and 3 months.
*''Age Difference = 22 years and 8 months.''
*Age Difference = 22 years and 8 months.


Ramlah was young enough to be Muhammad’s daughter.
Ramlah was young enough to be Muhammad’s daughter.
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While we do not really know Maymunah’s death-date, and therefore her birth-date, we will accept Ibn Kathir’s more conservative tradition. According to this, she was born in 30 BH, i.e., between 9 June 593 and 28 May 594 (median = 2 December 593). This would make her about 35 when she married Muhammad in February 629, although we will bear in mind that she might have been many years younger.
While we do not really know Maymunah’s death-date, and therefore her birth-date, we will accept Ibn Kathir’s more conservative tradition. According to this, she was born in 30 BH, i.e., between 9 June 593 and 28 May 594 (median = 2 December 593). This would make her about 35 when she married Muhammad in February 629, although we will bear in mind that she might have been many years younger.


*''Maymunah's Median Age at Marriage = 35 years and 2 months.''
*Maymunah's Median Age at Marriage = 35 years and 2 months.
*''Muhammad’s Age at Marriage = 57 years and 10 months.''
*Muhammad’s Age at Marriage = 57 years and 10 months.
*''Age Difference = 22 years and 8 months.''
*Age Difference = 22 years and 8 months.


Sir William Muir’s unsourced comment that “Maymunah is said to have been at this time 51 years of age”<ref>[http://www.answering-islam.org/Books/Muir/Life4/chap22.htm/ Muir, W. (1861). ''The Life of Mahomet'' vol. 4 p. 89. London: Smith, Elder & Co.]</ref> is thus wide of the mark.
Sir William Muir’s unsourced comment that “Maymunah is said to have been at this time 51 years of age”<ref>[http://www.answering-islam.org/Books/Muir/Life4/chap22.htm/ Muir, W. (1861). ''The Life of Mahomet'' vol. 4 p. 89. London: Smith, Elder & Co.]</ref> is thus wide of the mark.
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The year 8 AH did not end until 22 April 630. But in fact Muhammad must have married Mulaykah earlier than this. Her tribe lived near Mecca; they had resisted him at Mecca on 14 January; and Muhammad left Mecca on 28 January to fight the Hawazinites and Thaqifites.<ref>{{Tabari|9|pp. 2-3}}.</ref> It is practically certain that he married Mulaykah during his fortnight of residence in the city, i.e. in the second half of January 630.
The year 8 AH did not end until 22 April 630. But in fact Muhammad must have married Mulaykah earlier than this. Her tribe lived near Mecca; they had resisted him at Mecca on 14 January; and Muhammad left Mecca on 28 January to fight the Hawazinites and Thaqifites.<ref>{{Tabari|9|pp. 2-3}}.</ref> It is practically certain that he married Mulaykah during his fortnight of residence in the city, i.e. in the second half of January 630.


*''Mulaykah’s Probable Age = about 13 years.''
*Mulaykah’s Probable Age = about 13 years.
*''Muhammad’s Age at Marriage = 58 years and 9 months.''
*Muhammad’s Age at Marriage = 58 years and 9 months.
*''Age Difference = 45 years and 9 months.''
*Age Difference = 45 years and 9 months.


While this is only a guess, we were also only guessing about Sawdah. By the time Muhammad married Mulaykah, Aisha had become 16. Although Mulaykah was an older bride, she was almost certainly younger in years than Aisha.
While this is only a guess, we were also only guessing about Sawdah. By the time Muhammad married Mulaykah, Aisha had become 16. Although Mulaykah was an older bride, she was almost certainly younger in years than Aisha.
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In conclusion, Asma was probably in her late teens; but we do not really know. To be conservative, we will say that she was 20.
In conclusion, Asma was probably in her late teens; but we do not really know. To be conservative, we will say that she was 20.


*''Asma’s Maximum Age = 20 years and 0 months.''
*Asma’s Maximum Age = 20 years and 0 months.
*''Muhammad’s Age at Marriage = 59 years and 3 months.''
*Muhammad’s Age at Marriage = 59 years and 3 months.
*''Age Difference = 39 years and 3 months.''
*Age Difference = 39 years and 3 months.


Asma was once again young enough to be Muhammad’s granddaughter.
Asma was once again young enough to be Muhammad’s granddaughter.
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We do not know how old Amrah was in 631, but it is reasonable to suggest that she was 14 or 15 – a couple of years younger than Aisha.
We do not know how old Amrah was in 631, but it is reasonable to suggest that she was 14 or 15 – a couple of years younger than Aisha.


*''Amrah’s Probable Age = about 15 years.''
*Amrah’s Probable Age = about 15 years.
*''Muhammad’s Age at Marriage = 60 years and 5 months.''
*Muhammad’s Age at Marriage = 60 years and 5 months.
*''Age Difference = 45 years and 5 months.''
*Age Difference = 45 years and 5 months.


Again, this is a guess, but it is an estimate based on real data about Amrah’s life. We can make no such guesses about the remaining women in Muhammad’s life.
Again, this is a guess, but it is an estimate based on real data about Amrah’s life. We can make no such guesses about the remaining women in Muhammad’s life.
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#Asma’s Maximum Age = 20 years.
#Asma’s Maximum Age = 20 years.
#Amrah’s Approximate Age = about 15 years.
#Amrah’s Approximate Age = about 15 years.
*''Total Years = 343 years and 10 months.''
*Total Years = 343 years and 10 months.
*''Mean Age of Muhammad’s Brides = 24.56 years''
*Mean Age of Muhammad’s Brides = ''24.56 years''


The mean age of Muhammad’s brides was about ''24½ years''. Even by the historical Arabian standards, a woman of 24 was not quite “middle-aged”.
The mean age of Muhammad’s brides was about ''24½ years''. Even by the historical Arabian standards, a woman of 24 was not quite “middle-aged”.
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#Asma = 59 years and 3 months (not consummated, but legalities finalised).
#Asma = 59 years and 3 months (not consummated, but legalities finalised).
#Amrah = 60 years and 5 months (not consummated, but legalities finalised).
#Amrah = 60 years and 5 months (not consummated, but legalities finalised).
*''Total Years = 751 years and 4 months.''
*Total Years = 751 years and 4 months.
*''Mean Age of Muhammad as Bridegroom = 53.66 years''
*Mean Age of Muhammad as Bridegroom = ''53.66 years''


Muhammad’s mean age at marriage was ''53 years and 8 months''. The mean age difference between Muhammad and all his wives was over ''29 years''.
Muhammad’s mean age at marriage was ''53 years and 8 months''. The mean age difference between Muhammad and all his wives was over ''29 years''.
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